Are you controlling?

Trying to control your man doesn’t work, and in fact will kill his attraction for you. 

A masculine energy man wants to be in control of himself…his plans, his environment, his decisions.

Controlling is masculine energy and when you try to control what your man does, his decisions, his care, his choices, etc, you are in your masculine energy and two people in their masculine energy will repel each other. 

It’s like a couple dancing with two leaders…you end up stepping on each other’s toes. 

Attraction in a romantic relationship is based on polarity of energies….one masculine energy partner and one feminine energy partner. 

And it does not feel good for a masculine energy man to feel controlled. He will feel you don’t trust him to lead…in his life and in the relationship. He will feel you don’t trust him to make decisions. 

And you don’t really have control of another person…it is only an illusion of control. 

What can you do when you feel the urge to control him or the relationship? 

Look within you…control comes from a place of fear. And a lack of trust. 

❤️ Visualize a positive outcome 

❤️ Visualize yourself letting go of him and putting the focus on you…really feel the energy shifting from him to you 

❤️ Trust in his ability to take care of himself and lead the relationship 

❤️ Trust that the universe has your back 

❤️ Trust you will be okay no matter what happens because you always have you and you have a strong love and connection to you

❤️ Trust you are loved

❤️ Trust what IS there

Reach out to me to learn about how to transform your fear into courage and trust and really let go of control and live in a trusting energy. My clients are finally able to relax in their relationship…to connect with the love for themselves and step into their worthiness…to let go of control and be present and feel the joy and love from their man.