If you are having difficulty trusting, look deeper within yourself
If you are having difficulty trusting others or your relationship, look deeper within yourself.
When you don’t feel that you deserve joy and happiness and love in your life, you begin to doubt it is possible. You begin to question the motives of everyone. You begin to look for evidence of what isn’t working out for you so you can prove yourself right. As you doubt your potential for attracting positive experiences and as you find evidence of what is going wrong, you focus your attention on these things and are not able to trust.
When you don’t feel confident of your ability to show up and be there for yourself, that you have your own back, you are not trusting yourself. When you don’t trust you, it’s even harder to trust others. Because you feel that deep down, if something happened to make you feel sad, hurt, or upset, you can’t be there for you and that no one else will either.
When you don’t love yourself on a deep soul level, you will have a hard time trusting that anyone else will love you too. No matter what they say and do, you aren’t truly able to receive their love because you don’t have a strong love and connection with you. So you will always doubt their love, since you doubt your own love for yourself.
When you don’t believe in your ability to make good decisions and connect with your intuition, you will stop trusting yourself because you are fearful of making a mistake or of choosing the wrong man or relationship. This disbelief in you will cause you to have disbelief in others.
When you feel fearful because of past hurts that you are still holding onto, you will have a hard time trusting. You will subconsciously assume that the situation that caused you hurt in the past will repeat itself. In order to truly be open to love you have to fully live in the present and let go of the past hurt so it doesn’t control you today.
Because the people you attract will mirror your energy, when you are in a relationship and are not trusting you, him, the relationship…this is what he will mirror back. You feel uncertain and untrusting, so will he. The more uncertain he is, the more fear you may feel, and your fear of his uncertainty will cause you to continue to trust even less.
You have the power to break this cycle now. It doesn’t start by trusting him and the relationship, it starts by trusting you. By doing the inner work so you can embody worthiness, confidence, self love and let go of past hurt, you have the best chance for creating the beautiful relationship you desire and fully deserve!
If you want support on your journey, I can help and have some private coaching spots still available. I work with with women every day to create a deep soul love with themselves and step into their true worthiness and attract more love in their lives.