Abundance or scarcity?

What do you see when you look out into the world?  What you see has so much to do with what your experience will be.

Do you see abundance in everything?  Do you think wow this sunshine feels so beautiful…There are so many friendly people….

Do you think to yourself…I know the right partner for me is out there, and believe in this with all your heart?

Or do you think you need to rush outside before there is no more sunshine and warmth, almost feeling like this is your only chance to have it?  Do you only notice people who are disrespectful and begin to assume everyone will act this way?

Do you believe deep down that there are not enough wonderful single men so you will never find a great relationship?

You see the world through the eyes of your emotions.  If you feel angry, you will look out and see everything through the eyes of anger…you will not only notice when someone does something with anger but you will allow it to ruin your day or your mood.  If you feel sad, you will see the world through the eyes of sadness.

But if you see the world through the eyes of love, you will look out into the world and see love.  You will notice all the love around you because you have so much love within you that you are connected to.  You will start to feel grateful and appreciate the small things, noticing so much more love and beauty.

This helps you to really feel the abundance in the world because you are connected to it.  You notice it.  You truly see it.  You begin to live from this space.  

Love, gratitude and appreciation all help you connect to abundance.  

When you have an abundant mindset, you start to believe there are many wonderful people out there and that you will attract the partner who is right for you.  You do not feel there is a scarcity of great people.  You will not have expectations or the need to control an outcome with any one person.  

And when you can shift your energy…from scarcity to abundance, from fear to love, from control to trust…this is the mindset from which you will feel the happiest in your life.