What is your vision and does it match your underlying question?

What question do you ask yourself, consciously or subconsciously?  

What do I mean?  You may not even be aware but at some level there is an underlying question you are continuously asking and searching for answers to.  

Whatever it is, you will look for and find answers to it, in everything that happens in your life.  

For example, if your question is why do my relationships never work out for me, then you will focus on what is wrong in your relationship or why you are not deserving of a great relationship.  

If your question is why don’t I deserve love, then you will apply that meaning to events that happen in your life…for instance, when someone doesn’t call or cancels plans, you will apply the meaning to it that they don’t love you.  You will continue to look for things in your romantic relationship, in your family relationships, and in your friendships that prove this unworthiness you feel.  

What you focus on determines the lens with which you view the world and your life.  

You have the power to change this, and it starts with your awareness.

If you want to make a habit of focusing on positive things in your life, what is going well, what you appreciate, what you’re grateful for…look deeper to determine your underlying question, and if it’s not what you want and desire, change it to something positive!  “Why is life so beautiful?”  “Why is love so powerful in my life?”

If you want to make 2021 the year you create tremendous growth and attract joy and love and happiness in your relationship and in your life, begin by changing the question that is in your subconscious and affecting how you perceive every situation…create a new positive question for yourself to start the New Year, I know you can do it!    Feel free to share below… what is your question and what will be your new one.  

Make this new year the one where all the relationships in your life are beautiful.  One more chance to sign up for my coaching specials:

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These specials won’t last long!  Good through midnight eastern time on December 31.