Forgiveness

Do you hang on to something your teen or young adult did that was wrong or something he or she said that felt hurtful?  Do these past experiences seem to affect your relationship now?  Does a part of you feel you can’t or shouldn’t forgive them?   Forgiveness is an act of self love.  It…

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Do you find yourself criticizing your teen or young adult?

Do you find yourself criticizing your teen or young adult child often?  This can happen when you lose trust, even for a moment.   Maybe you don’t agree with the friends they have chosen or how they are spending their time.   The thing is, you don’t have to agree with everything they do in…

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I am meant for more

I am meant for more.  Did you ever feel that way?  That whether or not you love what you’re doing, you have that feeling deep in your soul that you were meant for more. That’s how I have felt.  After losing my 26 year old son, I did a lot of soul searching as to…

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There is light, there is hope

If your son or daughter has been diagnosed with a mental illness, you may be feeling many different things… fear, confusion, sadness, overwhelm, despair, or other emotions.   First, know that no one is at fault.  Not you.  Not them.   Second, accept what is happening.  Your son or daughter needs to feel you are…

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Are you making what your teen or young adult does about you?

If you are struggling in your relationship with your son or daughter, you may be making what he or she is doing about you.   You can’t both accept them for who they are and take their actions and choices personally.  This doesn’t mean you need to agree with their decisions.   But accepting who…

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