If you want to take a step towards a more loving relationship with your teen/adult child, begin with thinking of all the things you love about them

If you want to take a step towards a more loving relationship with your teen/adult child, begin with thinking of all the things you love about them.

And if right now you are having some difficulties with conflict, communication, or whatever it is, I do understand this could be difficult at first.

But think back to when they first came into the world… how you felt.

Think about their presence in your life over the last fifteen, twenty, or more years as a gift. 

Think of everything that you love about them since they have been in your life, even if you are at odds now.

I know it is hard when your child has mental illness or addiction, as right now nothing in your relationship with them may seem positive. 

But if you want a more loving relationship with them, you can begin the process by sending love to them even from afar. And connecting with their soul, who they truly are deep down.

Let me know how this feels for you.

Sending love and light,

Debbie