Think of all the things you love about your child

If you want to take a step towards a more loving relationship with your teen/adult child, begin with thinking of all the things you love about them.

And if right now you are having some difficulties with conflict, communication, or whatever it is, I do understand this could be difficult at first.

But think back to when they first came into the world… how you felt.

Think about their presence in your life over the last fifteen, twenty, or more years as a gift. 

Think of everything that you love about them since they have been in your life, even if you are at odds now.

I know it is hard when your child has mental illness or addiction, as right now nothing in your relationship with them may seem positive. 

But if you want a more loving relationship with them, you can begin the process by sending love to them even from afar. And connecting with their soul, who they truly are deep down.

In my book, Finding Peace and Purpose Amidst the Tears: My Journey of the Love and Loss of My Son through His Mental Illness and Addiction, you will see that you are not alone in your struggles with your child, even if your life feels consumed with their hospital visits, treatment center stays, drug use, and battles about treatment.

Join me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100021353857859 on Tuesday, May 9 for my book launch where I will be doing a series of lives talking about my book, answering questions, and speaking with special guests. 

Sending love and light,

Debbie