How does giving make you feel?

How does giving make you feel?

If you feel happy and fulfilled when you give of your time, energy, gifts, your giving is coming from love. 

If you feel drained and resentful, your giving is likely coming from a place of control and fear.  

When you do something for someone or give them a gift, ask yourself these questions:

Are you expecting something in return?

Are you giving to try to control an outcome and make the person like you?

Are you giving at the expense of taking care of your own needs?

Is fear of an outcome driving your decision?

If the answer to any of these questions is yes, it’s time to look within you.  Chances are that you may be feeling drained or operating from a place of scarcity in your life.  

When you are overflowing with love for yourself and connected to that love, you are in a place to give from love and desire and joy.  Because you want to.  Not because you have to.  Not because you want something from the person or want to move things forward.  

You will feel so much more energized and light when you give from your own abundance of love.  Giving will bring you joy and not put you in a place of expectation and control.  Giving will be receiving because your giving is the gift you receive.

Want to connect with the love and abundance within you and transform your relationship with yourself and others?  Reach out to me for a free 30 minute clarity session to learn more.  https://debbiegailcoaching.com

I would love to hear how you connect with your own love within you.  Comment here!