How do you identify yourself?
Have you ever made a positive change only to find that later your old way of doing things or your old way of thinking returned?
Maybe after a difficult divorce you work on loving yourself and feeling worthy of a relationship. You feel ready to date and you get into a relationship and your fears creep in…that you are not enough and that you won’t be loved.
What is going on here? You thought you had worked hard to create more self love!
While you may have worked hard on self love and feelings of self worth, you still identify with who you were before. In order to become the woman whose core is rooted in self love and worthiness, you need to change your identity around this.
Your identity may have been someone who is fearful, unworthy, unloveable, powerless. Maybe you feel like you were a victim in your past relationship. You can’t just work on loving yourself. You need to become the new you. Create a new identity. An identity of a lovable women who is worthy, brave, and empowered; not a victim. You need to become that woman.
You see, when you create a new identity that aligns with who you want to become, change is so much easier and lasting. You view the world from your new identity, instead of your old one. You think, act, and feel from the new identity.
Instead of seeing yourself as a victim and as the woman in your past relationship, you begin to see yourself and identity yourself as the new empowered lovable woman.
In my upcoming Heartfelt Love Group Coaching Program, one of the things I will be helping you do is to create and step into a new empowering identity. To become the woman you want to be and attract the magnificent heartfelt love you desire in a relationship.
I am sooo excited to be offering this program!
To learn more about my Heartfelt Love Program, visit the link below and reach out to me with any questions.
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