Sometimes it can feel difficult when your teen or young adult child takes a different path from the one you would like for them

Sometimes it can feel difficult when your teen or young adult child takes a different path from the one you would like for them.

I know, as I have been there with my oldest son.

When you try to take control, you may feel frustrated and begin to  realize you can’t make them do things your way.

Maybe you are even feeling worn down in this struggle to try to change your child.  

You see, really you don’t have control over someone other than yourself.

Focusing on controlling someone or something you have no control over can also drain your energy.

So, what can you do?

You can shift your focus from trying to control to two things instead:

🙏 You can inspire, advocate for them, guide them, teach them

🙏 You can spend your energy on the love – loving your child and loving yourself 

Sending love and light,

Debbie

If you are a parent going through a challenge with your teen or young adult child, especially if they have mental illness or are using drugs, join my Facebook group Loving Parents Navigating Challenges here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3075560526105218/