Are You Feeling Stuck?

Are you feeling stuck in a relationship that isn’t working for you? Maybe you know deep down that it doesn’t feel right. Or maybe he has even left the relationship and you can’t figure out why you can’t let him go. When you are hanging on to a man who is not treating you well or whose energy is inconsistent or who is not able to give you the commitment you desire, there are two primary reasons this may be happening.

Firstly, you may be creating a fantasy about the relationship or about him. Sometimes it’s a form of denial…you don’t want to admit the relationship has ended or that his energy isn’t present and consistent in your life. When things are not going well, your mind may create a story about the relationship. This makes you feel better about continuing to stay in a relationship that isn’t what you really want. You live in this fantasy that isn’t reality. Because it’s so much easier to live in a fantasy than it is to face the truth. When you unconsciously do this, you believe everything is much better than it really is. This makes you feel better or miss him or miss the relationship. When you create a story, you may miss the life you had and want it back because you don’t actually see it for what it was.

Secondly, somewhere deep down you are believing that there is no one who will give you what you are looking for…whether that is marriage or a long term committed relationship. When you tell yourself there is no one else out there, it’s easy to settle. In manifesting your soulmate, a man who can give you the commitment you desire and who treats you like a queen, you need to believe it’s possible for you. You need to feel there are good men out there who want what you do. You need to believe you are worthy and desirable. If somewhere deep down you do not believe this is possible for you, it’s easy to stay stuck in a relationship that isn’t right for you.

When you can shift your mindset from scarcity to one of abundance, you will be able to connect with the unlimited potential. Anything is possible when you believe in your own worth and believe that the man for you is out there looking for you.