Are you committed to yourself?
Are you looking for commitment from others and finding yourself wondering why you’re attracting people who don’t seem to want to commit?
This is the time to look within yourself. Are you committing to you?
Do you set an intention for yourself and follow through?
Do you commit to making plans with others and for yourself ahead of time and stick to them?
Do you commit to showing up for yourself when you feel down, sad, hurt?
Do you commit to getting to know yourself on a deeper level…what makes you feel good and meets your needs for love, connection, certainty?
Do you commit to investing in getting to know others and learning about their needs?
Do you commit to your own growth?
It all begins with you. Your mindset. Your beliefs, thoughts and actions. If you do not have a commitment mindset it is harder to attract people in your life with a commitment mindset.
What can you do?
Begin with you, as so many things begin with you.
What is one thing in your life you can identify that you would like to commit to? Set an intention, right now.
To help you stick to it, identity why this area is important to you. What will you gain? How will you feel if you commit to this? What will your life look like and how will it improve?
What beliefs are preventing you from moving forward with this and how can you change them? So many times we are not even aware that our beliefs are blocking us from manifesting our desires.
When you can imagine and visualize and really feel how your life will look and feel by creating or doing something you desire, it becomes easier to believe in it and commit to it.