Do you focus on quick answers or lasting change?

It may sometimes feel easier to find a quick fix for a problem.  Treating the symptoms rather than the cause.  An easy answer rather than deeper inner work to bring about positive change.  

The thing is, while many of us desire to feel good and not feel bad, we are not always willing to do the work to bring about lasting results.  

For example this can be true in health and wellness.  We feel symptoms such as an upset stomach or heartburn or migraines and instead of looking to the root cause and healing this for long term relief, we look to how to quickly mask the symptoms…what medication will make us feel better fast.  We never really heal our health issue causing the symptoms, we just keep covering them up.  Instead of healing our bodies from the inside, we may spend years trying to mask the symptoms just to find that they resurface abruptly without warning.  

The same can be true with relationships problems.  We can learn scripts so a man will notice us or ask us out or feel more initial attraction, but until we really do the inner work to heal our fears, master self love and self worthiness, and know how to look within for our own happiness, lasting change will not happen in our relationships.  

Yes we can learn relationship skills to learn how to improve our relationships.  But without doing the inner work, any changes will not be long term.  Our old problems will resurface.  Because we didn’t address the root cause and figure out how to overcome our fears and believe in our own love and worthiness.  And relationships based on fear are not the same as relationships based on love.  

I really want to work with as many women who desire to find love and happiness within themselves and create a lasting beautiful relationship in their lives.  I have developed a very affordable four month group coaching program to do this.  And, the first 5 people to sign up will receive two free private coaching sessions, so don’t wait!