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Finding your path to peace when you have a child with mental illness or addictions
If you have a teen or adult child with mental illness or addiction and you are struggling to find your path to peace, you may be making one of these mistakes- đź’«Taking things personally. When things are not going well with your child, do you blame yourself and make everything that is happening about you?…
Read MoreFighting against the reality of your child’s mental illness and addiction uses up a tremendous amount of energy. That will drain you.Â
If you have a teen or adult child with mental illness or addiction, acceptance is an important part of your path to peace. This may include accepting that your lives are completely different than they were before mental illness and addiction, accepting difficult events that happened, what your child is feeling and what they are…
Read MoreWhen you have a teen or adult child with mental illness or addiction, you may find yourself living in fear much of the time
When you have a teen or adult child with mental illness or addiction, you may find yourself living in fear much of the time. I understand, as I was there too. I realized that behind the fear was a need for certainty—certainty that my son would be okay, that he would be safe, and that…
Read MoreHave you ever let your child’s bad mood affect your own mood?
Have you ever let your child’s bad mood affect your own mood? This can be especially tough when they are suffering from mental illness or dealing with addiction and their moods seem to go up and down frequently. When they are down, you feel down. When they are stressed, you feel stressed. Well just like…
Read MoreAnger and frustration to appreciation and gratitude
How many times do you feel frustrated or even angry with your teen or adult child who has mental illness and/or addiction? Of course you love him or her dearly, but you are human, and sometimes they may lash out at you or make decisions you don’t agree with or do things you don’t like…
Read MoreHappy New Year!
Wishing everyone a very happy New Year filled with hope, love, and light! Wherever you are in your journey in life, bring into 2023 what you want more of and leave what you don’t want behind. You are the creator of your life! While you can’t make others change, you can change your thoughts, your…
Read MoreIs the question you focus on bringing you sadness or fulfillment?
I recently attended Tony Robbins’ Date with Destiny event in Florida and something very powerful that spoke to me was what question I was subconsciously asking myself. I worked on this over a year ago, but realized my subconscious mind had changed my primary question I had then worked on, to something disempowering without me…
Read MoreNo matter what you’re going through, create some new positive memories this holiday season
How are you feeling this holiday season? Sometimes this time of year can be difficult. If you are dealing with challenges associated with your teen or young adult having mental illness or addiction, or you’re dealing with a loss of a child or a loss of how your child was before illness, I know holidays…
Read MoreAre you feeling helpless because you don’t know how to help your son or daughter?
If you’re feeling helpless because you don’t know how to help your son or daughter who has mental illness or addiction, I understand this can make you feel down or frustrated. You want to help and you’ve tried a number of things but nothing seems to work. I hear you! Nothing seems to work because…
Read MoreDo you have a pattern for how you relate to your teen or adult child?
You may have a pattern for how you relate to your teen or adult child. A pattern may be triggered based on certain things your child does or says. That pattern may become a habit, coming out subconsciously without you even thinking about it. This pattern may shape the relationship and communication with your child. If…
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