When you are desiring an amazing relationship, make sure you are coming from a place of abundance and not lack.   What do I mean? Abundance that you know how to make yourself happy and you are not dependent on others to do this for you.  Abundance that allows you to get to know a person for…

It may sometimes feel easier to find a quick fix for a problem.  Treating the symptoms rather than the cause.  An easy answer rather than deeper inner work to bring about positive change.   The thing is, while many of us desire to feel good and not feel bad, we are not always willing to do the work…

When you want to grow and find greater happiness and love, you have to be able to move beyond your comfort zone.   To stay where you are is easy.  You take less risk and there is less uncertainty.  But there is limited potential.  Because when you are not growing you are dying.  You have unlimited potential for growth,…

What you believe to be true about yourself is so powerful! Do you know how powerful your own energy is? What you believe to be true about yourself will affect who you attract into your life, how others see you, and what they believe about you.   For example, if you believe you are inferior because…

As a life and relationship coach I help many women create happier relationships…with their partner and everyone else in their lives, including the most important relationship…the one with themselves.   One reason (and there are many) it’s important to have a great relationship with yourself is that this affects the space from which you enter into…

Have you ever come across someone who is negative all the time?   We probably all have, and we have a choice as to how much we allow their negative energy to affect our own energy, our own mood.   It’s so easy to allow it to, but you can change how you view this person and…

Are you living your life based on fear or love?  Which are you committed to energetically? Next time you do something for your partner or anyone in your life, ask yourself if you are doing it because it makes you feel good to do it and it’s from a place of love?  Or if you’re doing…

Several people have commented lately that my energy is so positive and I’m such a happy person.   I haven’t always been this way.  But I learned that I do have the power to choose how I want to live my life and I have the power over my own happiness.   How? Whenever possible I choose to…

Do you keep quiet and are afraid to share parts of your life and yourself?  Do you change your behavior or deny your emotions to conform to what you think others want?  If so, you may be acting out of fear. Fear of being judged by others. Fear they will reject you.   Fear you are not…

Do you try to solve problems and issues for your partner when you aren’t asked to do so?  If you do, you may be inadvertently pushing him away.  When you do this, the message it sends is I don’t trust you to take care of this so I must do it for you.  You send…