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This holiday season

December 13, 2018

This holiday season remember to take some time for you. Focus on what you need to feel good. It’s easy to get focused so much on everyone else that you neglect yourself.  This can look like not doing your daily routine of journaling or visualizations or affirmations. Or not getting enough sleep. Or trying to…

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Why is doing the inner work so important?

December 2, 2018

Why is doing the inner work so important?  When you can’t tell the difference between your triggered feelings based on your past and your feelings based on the present moment, you may respond or react in an exaggerated way. When your own limiting beliefs and nasty voices cause you to feel negative, you may lash…

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Happy Thanksgiving

November 25, 2018

  Do you ever find yourself focusing too much attention on things that just aren’t that important? I do. Especially sometimes when I’m stressed or even if I may wake up in the middle of the night, things may, in the moment, feel soooo important. But when I have time to really reflect on what…

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Are you controlling?

October 28, 2018

Trying to control your man doesn’t work, and in fact will kill his attraction for you.  A masculine energy man wants to be in control of himself…his plans, his environment, his decisions. Controlling is masculine energy and when you try to control what your man does, his decisions, his care, his choices, etc, you are…

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Believing in the good

October 7, 2018

I have always been someone who believed in the good in every person. Believed that everyone has positive intentions. Believed that everyone operated from a place of love.  While I still believe that this is mostly true, what happens when there is someone who was once in your life who is operating not from a…

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Your Fear and Your Limiting Beliefs Can Actually Feel Comfortable

September 25, 2018

Did you know?  Your fears and your limiting beliefs can actually feel comfortable.   Giving you a false sense of safety.   Making it harder to let them go without feeling a sense of discomfort and even an emptiness in the space they were taking up. This is why many we revert back to our…

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Focus on appreciation

September 22, 2018

Appreciation will help you to attract and live the life you desire.  When you can live from a place of appreciation for what is, you will attract so much more to be appreciative about and you will not be resisting allowing the good into your heart.  Appreciation helps you to focus on what is good…

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Do you have a hard time living in a trusting energy?

August 25, 2018

Do you have a hard time living in a trusting energy when you are in a relationship?  What does this mean? ❤️Trusting YOU will be okay no matter what happens because you always have you and you have a strong love and connection to you ❤️Trusting the universe has your back ❤️Trusting you are loved…

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Do You Have Strong Boundaries?

July 29, 2018

Do you have strong boundaries? Having boundaries does not mean you are being unkind. It does not mean you are not interested in getting to know a man further. You see, boundaries are not about the other person, they are about you. Boundaries are not about pushing another person away. They are about keeping you…

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Your Fears Are Really Opportunities For Growth

July 22, 2018

Doing the inner work doesn’t mean you will never feel fear. What it does mean is that you will feel the fear but not let it keep you stuck, not let it stop you from moving forward. Fears come up in many places…maybe it feels hard to be vulnerable in your relationship. You may fear…

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